The Asking Well

Frequent Questions

Short, direct answers to the things people ask first. Each one links to a fuller page for those who want to go deeper.

About therians

What is a therian?

A therian is a person who identifies as a non-human animal in a deep, lasting and involuntary way, while knowing that their body is human. The animal is called their theriotype. See the overview of therianthropy.

Do therians believe they can turn into animals?

No. Therians do not physically transform and do not claim to. They describe an inner identity and, for some, temporary shifts in mindset or body sense. Physical transformation belongs to folklore and fiction.

Is being a therian the same as being a furry?

No. Furry is a fandom: a creative interest in animal characters, which a person chooses and can set aside. Therianthropy is an identity that is not chosen. Some people are both, but most furries are not therians and most therians are not furries.

Is therianthropy a mental illness?

No. It is not classed as a mental disorder. Therians understand that they are physically human, which is what distinguishes an identity from a delusion. The rare psychiatric syndrome involving a belief in bodily transformation is called clinical lycanthropy, and is a separate matter.

How do I know if I am a therian?

There is no test, and no one else can tell you. People who turn out to be therians usually find that the feeling goes back to childhood, is about what they are and not what they like, shows up in involuntary ways, and survives honest doubt. The page on awakening and questioning suggests how to think it through without hurrying.

What is a theriotype, and how do I find mine?

A theriotype is the animal a therian identifies as. It is recognized slowly, by keeping notes on your own experience and comparing them with the real behavior of real animals. Quizzes cannot find it for you. See theriotypes.

What is shifting?

A shift is a temporary change in how strongly a therian feels their animal side. A mental shift changes mindset; a phantom shift brings the felt presence of a tail, ears or other features. No shift changes the body. See the guide to shifting.

Do I have to wear a tail or do quadrobics to be a therian?

No. Gear and quadrobics are things some therians enjoy. They are not the identity itself, and many therians do neither.

Can someone stop being a therian?

Therians generally describe the identity as lifelong. What often changes is how it feels: early intensity tends to settle into a quieter, steadier sense. Some people who questioned for a time conclude that the word did not fit them after all, and that is an honest result and not a failure.

About otherkin

What does otherkin mean?

Otherkin are people who identify as beings other than human, most often beings known from myth, such as dragons, elves and fae. The word dates from 1990. See the otherkin overview.

What is the difference between otherkin and therians?

Therians identify as animals of this earth; otherkin usually identify as mythic or legendary beings. The two communities have separate histories. Some people treat therians as one kind of otherkin, others keep the terms apart, and both usages are common.

What does alterhuman mean?

Alterhuman is an umbrella word, coined in 2014, for identities that stand apart from the usual idea of being human. It includes therians, otherkin, fictionkin and the otherhearted. See the alterhuman umbrella.

Is being otherkin a religion?

No. Many otherkin understand their identity in spiritual terms, but there is no shared doctrine, scripture or organization, and otherkin hold many different beliefs or none.

About the folklore

Are werewolves real?

Werewolves are figures of legend. No human being can turn into a wolf. The stories, though, are real and very old, and they are well worth reading. See werewolf mythology.

Can people really shapeshift?

No. Shapeshifting is found in the folklore of every part of the world, but it is not physically possible, and no ritual, substance or exercise can bring it about. Anyone who claims otherwise is mistaken or is misleading you.

Why do werewolves change at the full moon?

In most old folklore they did not. The full moon became the fixed trigger in twentieth-century fiction and film. See the werewolf and the full moon.

What is the difference between lycanthropy and therianthropy?

In folklore, lycanthropy is transformation into a wolf, and therianthropy is the general term for transformation into any animal. As an identity, therianthropy means identifying as an animal without any physical change. See the entry on lycanthropy.

For families and friends

My child says they are a therian. Should I be worried?

In itself, no. It is not an illness and does not mean your child is confused about reality. The most helpful response is calm interest. Ask what it means to them and listen to the answer. Worry is warranted by the same things that would worry you in any child: persistent unhappiness, withdrawal, bullying, or unsafe contact online. The essay For Parents and Friends goes through this gently.

Is it just a phase?

It may be, and it may not be. Some young people try the word for a while and move on. Others have felt this way all their lives and always will. You cannot tell which from outside, and you do not need to. Treating it respectfully does no harm in either case.

How should I talk to a therian or otherkin friend about it?

As you would about anything personal. Let them explain in their own words, do not ask for proof, do not make jokes at their expense, and keep what they tell you in confidence.

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